Fall is a Wonderful Time of the Year
The time around Thanksgiving is such a wonderful time of year. To me, nothing beats the outstanding weather that fills the air with it being not too hot, but at the same time not being too cold as I walk the property around my family's house.Then there is the changing and falling of the leaves that just adds to beauty of the season. What a wonderful place to call home. Although these are big reasons why I love this time of year, the biggest reason is because it gives us a chance to give thanks to God for the moments that meant the most to us throughout the year while celebrating with friends and family. With this being said, what does Thanksgiving day look like through the eyes of a person with disabilities.
My Vision for this Blog
In this blog, I will share my fall experience so far since we have moved out here to Georgia, what a Thanksgiving day looks like to me, some Thanksgiving traditions that my family do each year, and leave everyone with a challenge as we go through this week and celebrate this holiday.
Hey Corn Girl; Where is the Corn?
I'll be honest, moving half way across the country was a very big, life changing, and some what scary decision for my family. Colorado was our home for 20+ years with it being the longest place my parents have lived even with being in the military, so it was very hard to imagine us living anywhere else. After what felt like endless searching, tons of miles driving around Tennessee, Alabama, north Carolina, and Georgia to look at potential homes, and several dead ends we finally found our dream home on 19 acres of beautiful green grass, rolling hills, and trees that provides us with a nice barrier of beauty between us and the near by neighbors that are down the road. Since we were lead here by the need to be closer to family it has allowed us a easy and quick commute to family, allows us to be able to help out more when they need it, and overall provides us with opportunities that we wouldn't be able to experience while living in Colorado.
My favorite expirences so far is centered around a cute little buck that had one strong antler and one that looks more scraggly like it had formed weird so we named him Elliot after the cartoon deer in Open Season because in the scene where he puts a berry bush branch on his head in the place where his broken antler was located reminds us of this cute deer that keeps making an appearance around our property. In the beginning when we moved in; roughly three weeks back, we would look out the window almost constantly throughout the day hoping to see some deer like roaming around like the previous owners did during the time they lived here. For the first week as we started unpacking our belonging there wasn't really any movement from any animal. I personally thought that the recent tropical storm we got on the first night we moved in or the visit we got from the bobcat on the second night had startled them and they were hiding, but after we got some corn for deer from a supply store and continued the routine that the previous owner had started of sprinkling one big scoop full of corn out on a short, but wide path that was covered with trees located in between the backyard grass area that was cleared of all the tree when the previous owner was planning to build the house and a separate even more green clearing towards the back of the property. A few days later after I continued the process of putting corn out once a day we happened to look out the window of our livingroom before getting ready to start our day when we say our first deer that was hunched over eating the corn I had laid out for them and then a few days after that we looked out the same window around 11:00 or noon to experience two young deer chasing each other around the grass field at the back of the property and a bigger deer (probably the mother) running through the path that I put the corn down at as she keeps an eye on her babies.
The first time we came in contact with Elliot was an experience that I will never forget. I know with living in Colorado that seeing deer out in the open is an almost everyday event; but getting to see him up as close as we did in our own yard was awesome. It was early afternoon and we had just finished lunch when my mom first spot him in the backyard. Mom called out to my dad and I who were still in the kitchen/dinner as we finished and cleaned up in a soft voice as she told us to quickly, but quietly come to the window. I set place my plate on the counter to head over to the window where my mom stood to find Elliot walking across the yard from the left side of the yard roughly fifteen to twenty steps away from our house. I was amazed with what I was seeing as we stood there watching him walking across our yard and following him through the windows of the house being as quiet as possible as he walks from the back of our house to the side yard, and then around the front of the house; looking up at us once in a while before continuing his full circle around the perimeter of the house heading back into the woods. The crazy part about it was when he walked around the front we had our front door open with the glass screen door closed and the dogs saw Elliot in the yard and started barking at him; but he wasn't startled by it and instead stopped to look at them as if he was asking them what they where and why they were so noisy before turning to walk away.
The second time we came in contact with Elliot was on Friday morning as he stood on the beginning part of the path were the grass of the backyard ends and the woods began as he stood there for a few seconds starring at the house before running off into the woods. I didn't put the pieces together at first;but both time we saw Elliot there was no more corn left when I went out to feed them. I think he may be the food scout for his heard and if he could talk I would imagine he is saying " Hey corn girl; where is the corn?"
What does Thanksgiving day looks like to me?
With living in Colorado, we have always been like our own little island when it came to celebrating the holidays due to the fact that we didn't have any family around us and we would have to drive 20+ hours one way to visit with them on the East Coast where they lived. So, we ended up just celebrated by ourselves; which was perfectly fine for us at the time.
The day of Thanksgiving is always a crazy time with getting everything ready for Thanksgiving dinner; but at the same time it is full of lasting memories, joy, laughter, and really is a fun time of year to spend as a family. In the past our day includes;
- Getting up around 6:00 to start making our turkey
- Eating cinnamon rolls for breakfast
- Making and baking a chocolate pecan pie, an apple pie, and a pumpkin pie
- While the pie and turkey are cooking we start preparing our green bean casserole and yams, so they can cook when the pies are done
- Doing some sort of family activity while our sides are cooking
- Set the pies out to cool while the yams and green bean casserole cooks
- Cooking so crescent rolls
- Set the table
- Sitting down to give thanks to God and eat the many choices we cooked that could easily feed a whole army
- Relaxinh for a while as our food settles
- Eating pie
- Watch TV for a few hours
- Going to bed
As you can see, my family doesn't really do anything special for Thanksgiving; but this year I am really looking forward to getting to experience a big Thanksgiving get together with our family which I think will be really fun.
A Dickens Thanksgiving Tradition
Each holiday has a tradition whether it be sitting around eat hard boiled eggs on Easter, screaming our heads off as we eat our favorite candy while watching all the scary movies we can find in complete darkness on the night of Holloween, or staying in our PJ's no matter what on Christmas;but what kind of tradition is there for celebrating Thanksgiving. For my family, each year since my sister and I were younger we use to make a list of at least ten things we are thankful for that happened throughout the year and then we would go around the table to share our list. I really like this tradition because it gave us a chance to revisit the events that happened throughout the year and is something that I personally brings us closer together to each other and God on this special day.
Conclusion
Fall is by far one of my favorite times of the year. The weather is lovely, the scenery is gorgous, and it is the time to celebrate with family as we give thanks to God for the different events that we are thankful for that happened in that year. Even though moving was a big change in my family's life; I am very glad we did it because it will allow us to get to experience new things, get a fresh start, and overall assist us on our path of healing.
A Challenge to you; what are you Thankful for this year?
I know that 2020 has been a crazy and hectic year with everything that has occurred over the past 11 months ( covid 19, riots, and the election.) As we head into this week with celebrating Thanksgiving though; I ask that we as a group release all the negative events that happened this year and focus on celebrating in the way that feels right to us. Before I end this blog post, I challenge everyone to think of one thing that happened this year that you are truly thankful for and post it in the commit section either on
my website or on my Alyssa-bilites Facebook page. I will start, I am thankful that my family is in wonderful health with a beautiful place to call home.