We made it guys! Another year we can add to history.It has defilently been one fast, crazy, and unpredictable year for sure with Covid, the riots, and the election being the top three biggest events that happened this year alone. I still can't believe that we are already saying " Good Bye" to 2020 and welcoming 2021 into our world. Looking back over these last 12 months, many people may say it was absolutely horrible and for many it probably was; but when I look back at the kind of year my family has had, I see many different ways God has blessed us through this crazy time and I am excited to see what he has in store for us in 2021.
What will I Cover in this Blog?
Life is like an unpredictable rollercoaster that is filled with twists, turns, high moments where we are feeling good about everything around us, low moments where we feel overwhelmingly sad, scary moments that we really don't know how to handle, and times that just sends us through a loop. The hard part about this is that we are riding this rollercoaster; but we are doing so as if we were blindfolded with the only way of knowing where we are at is by how we feel and what we are experiencing in that present moment without knowing what will happen next.
I find this to fit into our situation right now with the tragedies that are taken place and how people are feeling about everything that is going on in this world. Don't you agree? As we kick start this new year, I want to provide everyone with some tips we can use throughout the year to ensure that we make 2021 a good year as we start discovering our true selves.
In this blog, I am going to discuss three things I encourage everyone to keep in mind, provide a few ways to help lift ourself up when going through a tough time, give a glimpse into what I am going to manifest for 2021, and end with a challenge to help everyone have a rocking year.
Things to Keep in Mind this Year
There are so many different possibilities for what is in store for us in 2021. It is up to us though to decide if we are going to continue to live life the same way we have in previous years or to take the nessasary steps to change habits that haven't worked for us in the past into ones that are benificial towards helping us in creating the life that we desire. Personal development is one of my favorite topics to learn about because there are so many categories that are amazing by themselves, but when they are put together it creates something amazing. With this, there are three things that we have to keep in mind when getting started on our personal development that I think will help everyone throughout these next 12 months and hopefully for the rest of our life. These reminders include;
- We are in control of nobody, but ourself
- We are the change we want to see in the world
- Practice make perfect
Digging Deeper
These three reminders are the biggest things that will help us in creating the life that we truly want to live. So many times people get angry at others for something they did or didn't do in which they can't really do anything about, see something that they would like to see in the world, but don't take the steps nessasary in hopes that someone else will step into the role to make the change, or they have something they want to accomplish and they start working towards it, but doesn't stick with it. Personal development follows the same rules in a way that we see on the stickers and what the flight attandent tells us on airplanes for the oxygen masks that says something along the lines of " put your mask on first, so then you are available to help others". Any change we want to make in life whether it be personal, family or friend related, and worldly all have one thing in common; change starts with ourself. The thing I find tricky is how do we stay motivated to making this change when we are going through a tough time?
Ways to Lift Ourselves back up When We are going Through a Tough Time
For my family, 2019 will always be known as the worst year for us with experiencing my sister's death and trying to deal with all the emotional hardships that came with the grieving process. During this time though, we learned a few different ways that helped to lift ourselves up. These methods include;
- Going for a drive in our favorite spot
- Getting out in nature in some way
- Doing a meditation, reiki, or EFT tapping session.
- Playing the greatful game where we take turns naming of something we are greatful for in the world until we run out of things to say. It can be big or small things.
- Creating a greatful board of things you are greatful for in your life that is someplace you can easily access it.
By doing these different activites helped us to disconnect from our daily life;even if it was just for a little while, helped us clear our mind, and allowed us to get out of the house. These are really good ways to easily lift ourselves up when we are going through a tough time, so we can continue to be motivated in making the changes we want to see in our life.
What am I Going to Manifest into my Life in 2021?
Each day we are manifesting expiriences situations, and objects into our life that are both good and bad whether we realize it or not. In fact, this year already my family has already started manifesting two things on our list that we want to see in our life this year. It is really cool when we are just sitting down talking with one another about different things we want to do and within that same day we either make the decision out of no where to do that thing we said we want to do sometime or we see different things online about that activity.
Thinking about the year ahead of us, I have a good feeling that it is going to be a wonderful year, even with everything that is going on around the world because I am going to make it one. Alongside the manifestation list I created with my family, I have also set a new years resolution that is my own personal goal of comfortably fitting into size 10 clothing. I will do this by eating healthier, doing portion control, and excersing 3 day a week. By setting this goal for myself will give me something personal to work towards accomplishing while doing something I love this year.
To Conclude
Let's make this year a good year everyone. Yes, there is a lot going on in the world right now, but there is not a lot we can do about it at the moment. The more we focus on all the negativity, more situations that are negative will appear in our lives. Instead, let's shift our focus to something positive with a challenge, shall we? Tonight I want everyone to think about a personal goal that you want to achieve for the soul purpose of you and nobody else. Once you have your goal I want you to set a time frame and how you will accomplish this goal. Lastly I want you to put something that will remind you of your goal, step, and timeframe someplace where you can see it everyday. Happy New Year Everyone!
Great advice. ❣
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