Living Out Of Bounds

Our childhood strongly shapes what our life is going to be like as an adult. Between the different situations, we experience, what people tell us, and what we figure out for ourselves lays out our life for us. At least that's what people think. Over the years I have found out that things that happen in your childhood can influence different beliefs around parts of your life, but also that we have the power to change all of that. What if I told you that your childhood beliefs don't have to shape your future. Let's find out why.


Victim vs victim Mentality

When I learned Victim vs victim mentality in my life skills class, I thought it was one of the most interesting things ever. Mainly because everything else I learned in that class was stuff that my mom and dad already taught me, but still it was an interesting topic. When my instructor had us apply this to our lives I very much could have been a victim with a capital V to my childhood. I could have made excuses, making no attempt to change my life, letting life just happen to me, and living with any limiting beliefs I may have that would hold me back from my potential; but I chose differently. I didn't want to live my life in that way, so I chose to be a victim with lowercase v. A person that doesn't make excuses, tries their hardest at everything, makes changes in their life for the better, and works on personal development.

Steps To Living Life Out Of Bounds

1. Love and believe in yourself
2. Change your mindset
3. Believe you can have anything you want
4. Practice personal development daily

Love And Believe In Yourself

One of the biggest things that you should master before starting any journey is to love and believe in yourself. If you don't love yourself then you won't believe in yourself that you can make a change then you won't even start the journey.

Throughout my whole life, I have loved myself for who I am as a person. I love all the challenges I went through, I love how hard I worked for each of my successes, but the biggest thing I love is how I believe in myself with everything I do. By loving and believing in myself has been the biggest thing that has started me on this amazing journey.

Change Your Mindset

As many of you know from reading my past posts is that our mind is very powerful. When we think of things either good or bad, you actually send a message to the universe that the thing you are thinking or saying is what you want to experience more of in the world. So, if you think of everything that can go wrong, then you will have more bad experiences and everything will go wrong in your life, but if you change your mindset and think of everything that can go well, then you will start seeing good experiences show up in your life.

Believe You Can Have Anything You Want

If you didn't have to worry about money and had an abundance of it; what would you buy? For me, I would go on all kinds of trips around the world, go ziplining, white water rafting, go on a hot air balloon ride, and get tons of books to read.  I have never been one for owning a lot of material possessions and always preferred to have as many fun experiences as possible. By believing that you can have everything you want in your life, you start attracting those things into your life.

Practice Personal Development Daily

Practice makes perfect. When going on a journey to living life out of bounds you have to practice, it doesn't just happen overnight, although that would be nice. Throughout my living out of bounds journey I have learned many different things to help clear the mind, loving myself, changing limiting beliefs, and healing yourself. Some of these things include

1. Meditation
2. Reiki
3. EFT Tapping
4. Affirmations

All of these things I have found on youtube with many different topics to explore and have used them in my own life. I highly recommend you take the time each day to do one, two, or maybe all of them. I try to do reiki and meditation each day and the times I do it constantly I feel and see a difference in my life.

The only Boundaries are the ones you set on yourself.

Throughout my life, I have always had the mindset that I could do anything I put my mind to and accomplish it. I never let things get in my way; I continued to grow even when things were challenging and never gave up on something when it didn't work the first, second, or hundredth time. I never put those boundaries for myself and you shouldn't either. I think living in a way that allows you to be open to all the different possibilities, working through your challenges, expanding your knowledge, and then taking flight into the vast unknown of the world is way more exciting than living a life where you are afraid to step out of your comfort zone, being closed-minded where you don't see all of the wonderful things around you, and just letting life happen to you. Don't you think?


Everyone has a say in how they want to live their life. Make it your own and live it to the fullest.